Unhappy Spouses
While I won't go ranting about how unfair life is to women, I think, like in many areas, cheating is finally catching up with women. When some men like to accept it or not, their wives cheat if they are not happy with their spouses. I saw some name calling that a guy did to a lady that supposedly was in an affair becausse she did not get what she wanted from her husband.
Firstly, all that - be a good wife talk is very old fashioned. That era ended with your mom's youth (Some women were ahead of times even then). Next, marriage is a two ways street, although it may seem tilted towards the men on the surface.
We have no business in telling that lady to shut up, she has "freedon of speech" just as you and I have. The people that told her to shut up probably do not fit in this culture and need to travel back in time. They are clearly out of tune with current times and reality. Come to think of it guys - EVEN IF A MAN HAS TO CHEAT - HE NEEDS TO HAVE A WOMAN - UNLESS HE IS GAY!!!!
So that talk about woman should not cheat is absolute trash. Cheating is less than ideal - either for a man or woman. But making it OK for a man and not OK for a woman is BS.